Now to my theory of SpeedEv.
I honestly think it’s possible for ANY guy to get good at pick up IF he improves fast.
I think most guys don’t.
I think most guys do the same thing over and over again and keep hoping to “get lucky.” I think this is the very apex of idiocy in the modern dating world.
Think about it. If you wanted to learn golf and you swung and hit the ball and it went 10 feet, would you then say “Gosh I guess I’m going to have to do that another 10000 times until I get it down okay.” No way! You’d say “That was was terrible and I’m going to have to try out some different swings and different angles and different clubs and eventually I’ll figure out the right way to hit the ball 100 feet instead of 10 feet.”
That’s SpeedEv. That’s sitting down and evolving FAST instead of plinking away hoping to somehow gradually figure something out. Horse crap.
The place this is the most important is in the basics of pick up. You really don’t know what you don’t know until you start working on this area. “Posture, really? Girls care about that?”
Yes. Yes they do. They care about it a LOT. So much so that the difference between a guy with good posture and a guy with crappy posture is like the difference between a guy with a sexy 5 o’clock shadow and a guy with a handlebar mustache. I’ll let you think that one over.
Tell you a story. I once got a really good promotion that meant an awesome title in my company and a lot more pay. I was really excited. And I thought what better way to pick up some new girls than by telling them about it. So I did. I told them about it a lot. I told them about my new title and my big pay raise. And do you want to guess what happened?
They hated it. They started treating me like a tool. I had better luck when I didn’t talk about my job at all.
So I cut it out. That’s SpeedEv. Try something new, if it works, keep it. If it doesn’t work, discard it. Keep trying new things, keep changing things. Find out what works, use it, find out what doesn’t work, get rid of it.
Do this and you pile on results FAST. It’s a little bit at a time but Dear Lord it’s effective. All those other guys out there are standing still while you’re climbing up a mountain of success.
They do this in programming. A programmer gets out a piece of software and tests it in the wild. It doesn’t work right, it’s buggy, it has problems. So he refines it and gets it out there again. It’s better but still not working quite right. So he makes a few more changes. Whoops now it’s worse. Nix those changes, try something else. All right now it’s working better. And on and on.
And what’s the final product look like? Perfection. If you treat your SELF like this with regard to WOMEN then you’ll ALSO reach perfection… with enough iterations.
But nobody does this.
Don’t ask me why, I don’t have the answers. All I know is if you start using SpeedEv and applying it to yourself you’re going to start getting some pretty surprising success with women pretty fast.
Wait, you don’t know where to get started? All right I told you I don’t like details but I’ll help you out here:
- The way you move
- The way you look at women
- The way you position your body
- The way you talk to women
- The things you say to women
- How you say those things
- How much humor you use or don’t use
- The kind of humor you use when you use it
- How many stories you tell and what they’re about
- How much you touch women and where you touch them
- How aggressive you are about meeting new women
- How aggressive you are about getting girls to go places with you
- Whether you go for phone numbers, emails or pick up girls to go home with you
- Whether you take the lead and tell women what to do or you hang back and let them take charge
The list goes on and on and on. There’s so much different stuff you can play with and toss around.
Point is get yourself evolving FAST. If you do that you’ll have more women than you know what to do with. And if that happens give me a call and I’ll come help you out.
~Bret