Learning how to pick up a girl is about more than learning to pick up. The nuts and bolts only take you so far.
It’s ALSO about LOCATION.
One of my favorite places to meet girls is in the hotel bars of a hotel I’m staying at. You don’t always strike gold but when you do, man it’s gratifying. It’s so easy. You ask them to come up and see your Jacuzzi or the view from your room and it’s a wrap.
Contrast that to meeting a girl at a hotel bar in a hotel you don’t have a room at and can’t GET a room because it’s fully booked because of that conference they’re throwing on science and religion down the hall. Unless it’s on like a light switch pointing at the ceiling it probably ain’t happening partner.
Location location location. Make no bones about it it’s dead important.
You can’t pick up a girl if you don’t have anywhere to take her. She could think you’re the sexiest man alive but if you don’t have a bed or a dark alcove somewhere or at least a bathroom or a closet you’re SOL. Next contestant, and you don’t even get a consolation prize. Okay maybe a phone number with 50/50 odds she ever answers it.
I’ve lived in cities all my life so I can only imagine what it’s like to be out in the country. Pros: all the locations you could ever ask for – barns, fields, that shadowy spot behind the big old tree or Farmer John’s haystack. Cons: there’s probably only one attractive woman within 4 miles of the locations you want to bring her to and she’s dating Big Mike the auto repairman. So I’m using the country as a prime example of somewhere location is NOT in your favor.
Here’s what’s important for location then:
- Enough attractive women to choose from that you won’t run out
- Somewhere nearby to take those women to once they decide you’re the one
You can band-aid over a lot of problems with your skills as a pick up artist by simply finding good locations and using location to the best of your ability. I figured out location when I was 19 and let me tell you I was as happy as a bullfrog in a lazy creek. The first time I used it right was with a girl I met just outside of the hotel I was staying at down in Cabo for spring break. I literally walked downstairs, ran into a hard-bodied blonde from Minnesota who didn’t want to go wakeboarding when all her friends did, talked to this girl for all of 6 minutes, then told her to come upstairs with me and have a few beers and look out over all the other people laying out on the beach. She said yes, we had incredible sex for a couple of hours (until her friends came back and started calling her name outside) and I converted firmly into the location camp for life.
If you want to be a pick up artist you need to get location on your side. Not doing that is like trying to make it in the army with just a throwing knife, some flares and a roll of duct tape. You can probably survive for a while but you’re going to do a heck of a lot better if you bring a rifle along. Location’s your rifle. Don’t leave home without it.
~Bret