First off I want to recommend a great resource on how to be a pick up artist. I’ve seen a lot of dreck out there but that book really hammers it home. I’m not in 100% total agreement with everything in there and it’s a little too fine-toothed a comb for me at times but it’s pretty close.

Second off let me go a little deeper into things now than I did in “Learning to Pick Up.” Because there’s a lot to cover here but at the same time if I get too technical my head’s going to explode.

You wanna be a pick up artist? Let me ask you WHY. Is it because:

• You think it’d be really cool?
• You need a club to join?
• You want to meet other pick up artists?
• You want your friends to be jealous?
• You want your ex to be jealous?
• Your parents don’t like it?

If you said “yes” to any of those you’re going to need to rethink your reasons because I’ll tell you straight up you won’t make it.

Mean of me to say that? No way, I’m helping you out here man. You’re only going to waste your time and that of a bunch of unsuspecting women if you’re trying to pick them up for those reasons.

Why say that? Because you will do it half-assed.

That’s right, I said you’re going to do a terrible job if you’re trying to get girls to impress your friends or piss off your ex. That’s because you don’t actually want it if those are your reasons. You want the APPEARANCE of it – not the thing in and of itself.

And the thing in and of itself is hot, lusty women naked in your bed with you naked with them.

Who doesn’t want that? You’d be surprised. What if I told you I was going to give you a MAGIC SECRET that would let you walk outside wherever you are and pick up a beautiful girl to take home RIGHT NOW… you’d just have to put a few hours into doing it first.

Are you gonna do it?

Well, are you?

Yeah didn’t think so. You don’t want it enough.

And let me tell you friend, you will struggle FOREVER until you want it enough. Because becoming a pick up artist is not about learning the right lines or techniques or gambits or tricks. It’s about wanting it enough and then just going and doing it.

Execution. That’s the one word that describes the difference between the guys who sleep with 100s or 1000s of women and the guys who sleep with 2. You think the guy who sleeps with 2 women is out there day and night, hungry for girls to sex, and just keeps striking out because he’s unlucky? You’re wrong if you do. The guy with 2 notches on his bedpost doesn’t even step up to plate. Or when on occasion he does he doesn’t swing, he just lets the ball go sailing past.

There’s only one reason that works if you want to learn how to be a pick up artist:

• You want to sleep with a lot of beautiful women!

That’s it. And by “want” I mean you’re going crazy during the day time tearing your hair out at work because you can’t wait to get out there and go find more beautiful girls to sex up. If that’s not you trust me, there’s only so far you can will yourself to success.

You gotta WANT it. Make yourself want it if you don’t right now. That’s how you get good.

~Bret